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Emotions

Allowing our children to feel their feelings models that emotions are neither good or bad. ⁣⁣⁣
They are neutral. ⁣⁣⁣
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Emotions come and go like the waves in the sea.⁣⁣⁣
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As we continue to model regulation and healthy coping strategies our children learn to observe their emotions, create space, and move on. ⁣⁣⁣
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They learn not to fear or reject “negative” emotions such as anger, rage, or guilt any more than they would “positive” emotions such as joy and appreciation. ⁣⁣⁣
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Supporting our children through their emotions may look like, offering our presence, our regulation and sometimes a hug or affirming words. ⁣⁣⁣
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Some children will welcome all of it.⁣⁣⁣
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They want us close by and may sit on our lap while they cry, scream, and let their feelings out. ⁣⁣⁣
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Others will push us away or run away. Yelling, “GO AWAY MOM/DAD!”⁣⁣⁣
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These children experience their feelings as heavy weights.⁣⁣⁣
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Their emotions can feel so big that it feels unbearable and they may want nothing more than to hide from them and us. ⁣⁣⁣
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The thought of talking about them and letting others see them can bring about another big feeling: shame.⁣⁣⁣
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“This emotion feels so big and unbearable and I feel ashamed by it that I can’t let you see me.”⁣⁣⁣
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It’s in these moments, we remember two things:⁣⁣⁣
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🌟 Our inherent worth does not change based on our child’s rejection of us. ⁣⁣⁣
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Your child may push you away, and you are worthy.⁣⁣⁣
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Your child may yell, “leave me alone, go away!” and you still matter.⁣⁣⁣
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🌟 Your unwavering presence is still needed.⁣⁣⁣
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When our child wants to run away because their feelings feel so big, they still need us.⁣⁣⁣
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It may look like us saying, I hear you need space, and I won’t leave you alone with your big feelings. ⁣⁣⁣
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Be on the lookout for a reel example coming soon! ⁣⁣⁣
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🗣 Remember that posts and scripts do not give the full picture of what your child needs.⁣⁣
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Attuning to their core needs will help guide us.

In other words, you are the best parent for your child.💛

 

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