My Two Babies
My two babies...🥺💕
I’ll be honest, the mom guilt has been so real these past few weeks as I get closer and closer to having baby.
I feel terrible that Maisy Jo’s life is about to be so different, and there’s not much I can do to fully prepare her for that.
I never want her to feel replaced or unloved.
I worry that she will feel that way even once, and it makes my heart hurt so badly.
The anxieties and questions that run through my head as soon as my head hits the pillow, keep me up at night....
Will I love both of them the same?
Will one of them feel like the other gets more attention?
Will my second baby feel not as loved because the attention won’t be 24/7 like with my first baby?
Will our family be able to adjust to having another baby?
How will this affect my daughter?
I’ve never been someone who handles change well, and I tend to become a bad over-thinker as soon the “unknown” is put into the equation.
I do know I’m not alone because, so many mama’s have messaged me telling me they understand, and are feeling/felt the same way!
It’s normal to be scared and anxious when such a big change is about to happen.
I know it’ll be okay, and that Rhonin will fit perfectly in our family, but right these are my fears, and that’s okay! ❤️
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